Of course im referring to my own experiences and the general idea of it and there is the obvious dependency that is almost inherent in all “Relationships” of the romantic kind.
But what I really dislike is looking back at the time when I felt half with another and our actions were all connected, stepping together and thinking through things even at the same rhythm.
Now I’m not jaded or anything in this, I’m not against people being in a relationship or myself being in one if all parties are down with what that means or what they want it to mean.
What I’m trying to make a point on is this
You are a person, a being, that I find attractive in any sense of the word (and for the record I don’t consider that word to relate to appearances) and I am one for you or something that matches up, our interest here is, to me to explore that other and also explore them in the context of ourself but not to become them or they become us or to find some common ground that you both can operate on in a synchronized fashion. That’s just compromise, which is the death of both sides.